Youth
Lilian Omoyemi-Mann, the Project Coordinator, Advocacy for Positive Behavioural Patterns Initiative — a non-governmental organisation — has urged parents and guardians to promote positive behaviours among children.
Omoyemi-Mann made the appeal in an interview with the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) on Wednesday in Abuja.
According to her, behavioural development lays the foundation for a child’s future success and well-being.
She said that behavioural development encompassed essential skills such as empathy, self-control, resilience and social competence; all of which are crucial for navigating life’s challenges effectively.
Omoyemi-Mann stated that neglecting these aspects of development could lead to serious consequences in adulthood, including difficulty in forming relationships, managing emotions and adaptation to new environment.
“In an era dominated by technological advancements and academic pressures, the significance of behavioural development in children often takes a backseat.
“However, now more than ever, it is imperative that parents and guardians prioritise nurturing positive behaviours in their children before it’s too late.
“As children grow, they are like sponges, absorbing everything around them. Their behaviours, attitudes and beliefs are shaped by the environment they are exposed to, primarily, at home and in school.
“Therefore, it is the responsibility of parents and caregivers to create a nurturing and supportive environment that will foster positive behaviour.
“In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to resort to quick fixes or distractions to manage children’s behaviour such as handing them a tablet or smartphone to keep them occupied.
“However, this approach neglects the development of essential life skills and emotional intelligence,” she said.
According to her, parents should prioritise spending quality time with their children by engaging them in activities that promote positive behaviour and emotional growth.
The coordinator added that quality time included reading together, playing games that required cooperation and problem-solving, or simply having heartfelt conversations about their day.
Omoyemi-Mann said that parents must lead by example, adding that children learn by observing the behaviour of adults around them.
According to her, it is crucial for parents to model the behaviour and values they wish to instill in their children, such as kindness, respect and resilience.
“Addressing behavioural issues early is key to preventing more significant challenges later in life.
“By prioritising behavioural development in the lives of their children, parents can equip them with the tools they need to navigate the complexities of adulthood successfully.
“The time to prioritise behavioural development in children is now through investing in their emotional and social well-being from a young age.
“Parents can help the children to become resilient, empathetic and responsible individuals, who are equipped to thrive in an ever-changing world,” she said.(NAN)
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April 03, 2024 @ 15:02 GMT
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